Affective statements are simple but powerful expressions that let children know how their behaviour impacts others.
These statements use "I" language to express personal feelings, helping children become more aware of how their actions affect those around them.
For example, instead of saying “Put your towel on the rack,” an affective statement might be: “It upsets me that you leave your towel on the floor, can you please hang it up?” Or, to reinforce positive behaviour: “I’m really pleased that you hung up your towel.”
By modelling this language, we help students build empathy and begin to reflect on how their behaviour influences others. Over time, this fosters a more thoughtful, respectful learning environment for all.
